Listening, Understanding.

"...People often feel very comfortable commenting on my physical appearance, whether in a positive or negative way, and I've been pressured to do stereotypically female things, even though I'm terrible at them..."

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Bethany Chamberlin
"about me"

...We carefully craft our words. Not wanting to make too big of a mark yet, we don't want to get put into the wrong box - because first impressions are so real - people won't try and get to know you better, to know you are so much more than the first impression...

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Bethany Chamberlin
Projects of Love and Projection.

As these, and many more, realizations come to the foreground of my thoughts instead of the background intentions - it also becomes clear to me that modeling these myself teaches more than just telling her these things. 

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putting down or building up?

A mother took a book out of her approximately 10 year old daughters hands, then proceeded to berate her: 

"The reason your brother can read these books is because his IQ is SO MUCH HIGHER than yours. He's so CRAZY insanely smart he can understand these books. You just can't. You need to go pick out a book that's at your grade-level." 

I watched the expression on that little girls face go from excitement to devastation . 

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Bigger than me

How do we raise up mentally + emotionally strong girls?   How do we break out of the roles we are built into simply because it’s all the world knows?

 I want my daughter to know how strong she is. That she can grow up in a world of possibilities. That is not limited. That she can do, and be, truly anything she wants...

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Changing Seasons

Like the time of change between summer and fall, my life has looked very similar. The leaves around what I've built are falling and I'm finding space in my branches - in my mind - in my heart to rest, recharge and refill my every empty bucket. 

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Bethany Chamberlin